October 13, 2019

As we get to know each other and are in the rosy glow of lust, we nod and agree and quote beautiful platitudes about the wonder of change. And then, once that shimmer of new love is worn around the edges with some reality, the hammer of “Accept me or else” comes out of...

August 16, 2019

I have come to accept that unless a couple truly yearns for children, forced monogamy with legal approval is irresponsible and unrealistic. Treating others with respect and honesty about what we need, while staying safe and rejoicing in being sexual beings is just as v...

June 26, 2019

Like I’m somehow to blame for the fact that life just sucks sometimes and we get caught up in the mess and have to deal with it. Walking into the room of a dementia patient who is shrieking that “they’re taking over the facility!!” or being abandoned by someone you tru...

January 24, 2019

As I have marched along my personal timeline of aging, not much jumps out and surprises me anymore, though. That can be a good thing on most days; our hearts probably can’t take it. But once in a while, I am caught off guard.

December 29, 2018

As I contemplate another 10 years of all this fun, I have a few random thoughts, things I have learned by screwing things up or ignoring the danger signs for way too long......

April 19, 2018

When life seems dismal, we have to know that things will get better…… because they always do. Scarlett said so.

March 13, 2018

Aging does not have to mean OLD.

February 12, 2018

I kicked HARMONY to the curb!